tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-188319040742098781.post5640122924027628804..comments2023-05-25T07:36:28.625-06:00Comments on What Lis Thinks: Where Is The Line?Lishttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00131557809343518213noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-188319040742098781.post-64542163560459642792013-03-19T12:45:43.454-06:002013-03-19T12:45:43.454-06:00I love hugging people to! but yeah, there are defi...I love hugging people to! but yeah, there are definitely people I'm like, stay away from me!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-188319040742098781.post-44544168728873006122013-03-17T14:51:51.058-06:002013-03-17T14:51:51.058-06:00I don't think it's bad to be a hugger. Tha...I don't think it's bad to be a hugger. That's not the impression I meant to give. It's just to be aware of how others react. If people are stiff during a hug or keep their arms crossed, that's a clue. But if they hug back, and smile sincerely, they don't mind. I partly wrote this post because of a straw-that-broke-the-camel's-back person. For a lot of the things I mentioned, it's not a first time offense, but a continual offense. I would say keep doing what you're doing but with an aware mind to how people react. BUT, be careful you don't read too much in to a wrong signal. If the person is busy or had a bad day, it's not the same as them not liking you. It's all a balancing act. Good luck!Lishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00131557809343518213noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-188319040742098781.post-6623541375708497312013-03-17T11:24:02.549-06:002013-03-17T11:24:02.549-06:00I've become a hugger over the years. I did not...I've become a hugger over the years. I did not used to be as a child and especially not as a teen--probably as a result of being made to kiss family members every time you saw them, because of the French culture. It started to change when I had my own children (I honestly don't remember being hugged as a child). This is a great post to remind me that my "comfortability" (word?) of space is not the same as others. I'll probably be a more "careful" hugger in future. ;>Nathalie Shortenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16001465017449576323noreply@blogger.com